Do you know why girls like hookup?

You never thought that one day you would embark on the road of having one night stand. When you are consciously belonging to a "traditional" person, sexual enlightenment. And even when you were in college, you were forced to open it by your first love boyfriend. I always feel that I have "spiritual cleanliness" and "virgin plot."

However, since when did it begin, the word one night stand became less shameful and dark, and even became a slogan that "everyone knows". Various hook up apps support this kind of behavior to become a fashion. Booty call is everywhere and seem to be a harmonious scene where business is not righteous.

The first time you have one night stand was because you broke up with your boyfriend. After a year, you were so frustrated that you felt that no one in the world could compare to him. And you didn't even want to look at others. So you are counting on a stranger to help you get over this relationship.

The standard of the hook up partner should be not to be entangled, you have been working hard to do this kind of thing again. Sometimes you talked a lot, from piano, chess, calligraphy and calligraphy to the philosophy of life. It feels like you have found a soul mate. At this time, say, come on, let’s have a shot, let the soul blend. This is really hard to refuse, but as a result, we met and hook up. The reality is far from harmonious as imagined.

Firstly, you can't pass the psychological barrier, and you feel that you are really mean. Okay, now I am no different from the bus that has been scolded by the whole family under the news on the Internet. Even after the first hook up dating, you cried bitterly, feeling that everything I fell so depraved was given by the bitch. So I didn't forget that person because of it. I hate it just to think about it.

Secondly, how can anyone expose their body to a stranger without being ashamed. To what extent is that numbness in the true sense of "everyone can do everything". I am ashamed, I am inferior, I am afraid that I will be rejected because of my bad shape. Sometimes I am afraid, and I am afraid that I will be hurt. After all, women always suffer from this kind of thing. Sometimes they worry about being entangled in everything, and if they are really criticized because of this, wouldn’t it be too much to be criticized by people who are really openly pointing their noses and scolding a bitch? The gain is not worth the loss.

Finally, if you really hit the trick of "reaching the soul to someone" and fall in love with each other, it will be even more embarrassing.